Ok, 1st of all, really sorry.. Long time never update here after 1 week…really sorry…
Teenagers life is very complicated. they dun like people nagging around n shout or scold to them, but if u din do tat they getting worst n din put u in their mind.. but I dun think Jeff not like tat lar…actually music is a part of their life…maybe they feel very comfortable when put high volume. Maybe this is call interesting. Can say hobbies too…sometimes my son will on the speaker loud n with the sub woofer too…n those song is tat kind screaming or shouting…he do tat I din scold him because this is a way for them to release tension n stress. When he form 5 tat time, he did do tat.. but later on… no more, he will start turn to low volume n listen to Chinese song or English song… n sometimes I also on loud the speaker n close the door, my daughter keep complain bout that she can’t tahan with loud …hmmm Lilian, is normal.. not need to scold them.. tell them nicely, tell them when youngest brother is sleeping u cannot open it. when they r in happy moment.. let him on…u oso can listen too rite.. if u try to understand wat song r they listen, u eill found out that u get ypung n young, becos u able to catch up wat song is lstest song n u can more rapat ur relation wif ur son…hope tis passage is helpful for u.. anything u can give a comment n I will do my best for your request…
Teenagers is the time they might make u very angry.. becos they started to more on outside like example, go out wif friend ar.. n no more parents in their heart… bcos they think tat parent dun know wat they need… u must have to prepare to accept wat ur son did to u..it may hurts sometimes, but its like tat. when he grow elder, he will more understand parents… oh ya, u have 4 son.. all r boy.. maybe it’s more worst than my situation.. cos I stil have a gal who always listen to me bout nagging her brother…my son is a out going son.. he like to stay outside more than at home.. maybe no fun at home…so he meet fren, go n play, cycling, down hill, yumcha at mamak… sometimes u very bimbang for tat…aigh..is like that lar…how u scold oso they won’t listen.. u must have a good level of patient. Its really help…
Since they are small u have to teach them some moral value which can help them when them grow older.. like with loud volume… or the correct way to listen to music…all those have to teach them since younger…more easier to teach…
If they still like tat..dun1 to listen to u , then u can react as what they did, do back the same thing, if they complaint bout that, then it’s the rite time to tell them its al so disturb ppl when on volume high…this is the way I did it sometimes also…haha…pity my gal keep on complaint me…n more she go to switch off the radio…hahaha…!!
